Dear Annie: I’m a divorced woman in my late 40s with a child in college, and for the past 2 1/2 years, I’ve been in a wonderful, loving relationship with a man I’ll call “Matt.” He and his sister, “Martha,” are extremely close -- so close they call themselves “Irish twins.” Since s he lives far away, I’ve only met her a couple of times, but let’s just say she didn’t leave the best first impression. She was short-tempered and downright rude to their elderly mother, a lovely woman with whom I bonded over our shared love of antiquing. ...read more read less