In 2011, Lori Boisclair was facing some challenging business decisions. Her husband, Robert, had lost his long battle with cancer just as their company, real estate developer Boisclair Corporation, had six projects coming up for syndication that needed bridge loans to make the deals work. However, the company didn't have a bank lined up for the transactions. “I remember some of our final conversations were about where we should go for banking,” said Lori, who joined the company in 1990 and now…