Dear Annie: We’ve been married nine years and have a 3-year-old daughter. We share responsibilities in raising her. But I’m beginning to feel like I’m being used. I work nights and when I get home from work at 8 am, I’ll find a list on the kitchen table of chores my wife wants done. Aside fr om the fact I need to sleep, I take my daughter to pre-school three days a week and pick her up three hours later. ...read more read less