Dear Annie: My husband is a wonderful man in many ways, but lately I feel more like the household manager than his wife. We both work full time, yet somehow I am still the one remembering birthdays, scheduling appointments, keeping track of the groceries, planning family events and noticing when som ething around the house needs to be done. If I ask for help, he usually does it, but only after I bring it up. He says I should just “tell him what I need,” but I am tired of always being the one who has to notice, remember and delegate everything. ...read more read less