Dear Eric: This is in reference to “Fed Up”, a stepmother who wrote that she “despised” her stepson. When I married my husband 42 years ago, his daughter was 11 years old. His ex-wife said she would never let her live with us but one year later she moved in. I was 27 years old and had no ide a what I was doing with an 11-year-old stepchild. ...read more read less