Got problems? Yes, you do! Email your question for the column to [email protected]! by Dan Savage I’m a 28-year-old gay man who isn’t going home for Christmas for the first time in my life. I’ve been out since I was fourtee n and my family has been amazingly supportive, and they love my boyfriend of four years. (They hated my first and third boyfriends, so it’s not like they love anybody I bring home.) We’ve spent the last three Christmases with my parents and sisters and nieces, but this year a kinky gay couple with an amazing dungeon invited us to spend Christmas at their place and we’re going. My boyfriend played with these guys before we met, so he knows them, and there are two other kinky couples coming. My boyfriend and I have some gear but nothing like these guys have. We’ve always fantasized about being in bondage together in a real dungeon and so we immediately said yes. When I told my parents we… [ Read more ] ...read more read less