When it comes to our sexual love interests, we all have different things that really get us turned on and get us "in the mood.” For some folks, it can be as simple as cuddling/snuggling/spooning, and just that overall warmth and affection you get from being with your partner. For others, t hey might be more on the other end of the spectrum and get their pleasurable desires fulfilled by more of the "harder" side of the kinky spectrum, like doing BDSM role play with whips, chains, wax, and every other toy under the sun. ...read more read less