DEAR ABBY: My friend “Buddy’s” daughter is at an age between my two daughters’ ages. She is 11; mine are 10 and 13. I’ve known Buddy since junior high, and our wives get along well. We live close to each other, and that’s great, but their daughter “Edie” is a nightmare to have stay w ith us. She’s mean, arrogant, disobedient and incredibly rude. ...read more read less