Dear Eric: My son lives with his girlfriend and his kids. I feel she’s one way in front of my son but behind his back she is the other way. It’s like my son does everything with the kids and house and she does nothing. When I go over, she never comes out to greet me. If I invite my son to my pla ce, he always says “oh, she doesn’t feel well.” Then she makes the kids pour her drinks. Lord knows I try to mind my own business but it’s not easy. What do you think I should do? ...read more read less