A sudden onset of premature ejaculation has her wondering, "Will I ever be able to enjoyably ride my husband again?" by Dan Savage My husband and I have been together fifteen years and been through pretty much all of the ups and downs sexually that a monogamous relationship offers. Two years ago, my husband was in an accident and broke his back. The accident resulted in some mild-to-moderate nerve damage to his legs and a newfound case of premature ejaculation. I adore my husband and while toys normally help finish the job for me, I’m left wanting for our old sex life. I’m also worried about his satisfaction. His lack of endurance stresses him out and I end up feeling like it’s more important for me to fake an orgasm, so he doesn’t feel bad and worry about his performance. He’s tried Cialis but it causes more nerve spasms than it’s worth. I’m at a loss. I’ve found very little in my research on back injuries and the effects on sexual functions and… [ Read more ]