DEAR ABBY: I often wonder why men don’t care for their children like women do. In my lifetime, I have known only one man who changed diapers, did naps and baths, took kids to daycare or school, attended most events in the child’s life and was there for the child 24 hours a day. (He’s the man I married.) Most men I know think all of the above are the woman’s responsibility alone, even if she works full time. I can only assume it dates back to cavemen days or life on the prairie. -- VALUED IN INDIANA