HONOLULU (KHON2) -- Día de los Muertos, or the Day of the Dead, is a vibrant celebration that honors deceased loved ones. Though it has deep roots in Mexican culture, its spirit resonates widely, including here in Hawaiʻi. Ashley Howell-Wasson, the reigning Mrs. Hawaiʻi United States, shared insights about this special occasion that, in Hawaiʻi, blends her Mexican heritage with her husband's Native Hawaiian culture. Get Hawaii's latest morning news delivered to your inbox, sign up for News 2 You "Growing up, Día de los Muertos was a significant part of my family tradition," Howell-Wasson said. "We set up an ofrenda to remember our loved ones. It's not just a ritual; it’s a way to keep their memories alive." At its core, Día de los Muertos began as an Aztec holiday steeped in mythology. Howell-Wasson explained, “It started with Queen Mictecacihuatl, the queen of the underworld. Her role was to watch over the bones of the dead. Once a year, she would visit the land of the living to ensure those bones were well cared for.” So, every Nov. 1, the people of Mexico celebrate their lives and the lives of their loved ones to show Queen Mictecacihuatl how they are taking care of the life they have been given. This blend of reverence and celebration underscores the importance of family and ancestry. In Mexico, the holiday is marked with altars, known as ofrenda, adorned with photographs, favorite foods and cherished items of the departed. It's a ritual that allows the family to come together to remember, celebrate and love one another. “We create an ofrenda days before Nov. 1 and 2, which are the main days of celebration,” Howell-Wasson shared. “It's about inviting the spirits back to visit us, showing them they are still remembered and loved.” The colorful festivities are more than just personal; they foster community spirit. "Día de los Muertos brings families and friends together. It's a time to share stories and celebrate life," she said. In Hawaiʻi, the celebration takes on unique elements. “While we may not have the large-scale festivities seen in Mexico, we have our own ways to honor our ancestors,” shared Howell-Wasson. At the Bishop Museum, for example, events are held to commemorate those who have passed. Howell-Wasson noted, “They open their doors for people to celebrate the lives of our old kings and queens and others who have shaped our culture. It’s a beautiful way to connect our histories.” One interesting aspect of Howell-Wasson’s perspective is her personal connection to the celebration. “For my wedding, we created an ofrenda to honor our grandparents who had passed," she recollected. "It was so special to have them with us in spirit on such an important day.” She described how they placed photos and items that represented their loved ones in order to make the event feel rich with family history. As she reflected on her cultural heritage, Howell-Wasson emphasized the need for inclusivity. “You don’t have to be Latin to celebrate Día de los Muertos," Howell-Wasson explained. "Everyone has someone they’ve lost, and this is a beautiful way to honor them.” This sentiment resonates with the Native Hawaiian value of ʻohana (family) and kaiāulu (community) as it reinforces the idea that everyone can find meaning in remembering those who came before us. Howell-Wasson also discussed how Día de los Muertos can be a gateway for people unfamiliar with the tradition. “Even if people don’t know the specifics, many celebrate by visiting graves, putting out flowers and reflecting on their loved ones,” she said. “It’s about love and connection, no matter where you come from.” Moreover, she highlighted the significance of keeping traditions alive for future generations. “As a mom, I want my kids to understand our culture and the importance of remembering our ancestors. Just llike in Hawaiʻi, it’s vital to pass down these traditions,” she explained. “It helps them build a strong identity and appreciation for where they come from.” In Hawaiʻi, Howell-Wasson sees the potential for blending traditions. “Hawaiians have a rich culture that emphasizes the importance of ancestors. While the practices may differ, the core value of honoring those who came before us is universal,” she said. “We can learn from each other and create beautiful, hybrid celebrations that honor all our ancestors.” As Día de los Muertos approaches, Howell-Wasson invites others to join in the celebration. “I encourage everyone to create their own ofrenda. It’s not just for Latin cultures; it’s a way for everyone to connect with their past,” she said. “It’s a reminder that while our loved ones may be gone, their influence and love are still very much alive.” In essence, Día de los Muertos serves as a powerful reminder of the bonds we share with our ancestors. In Hawaiʻi, this celebration takes on a special meaning for many as it merges cultural traditions while fostering community ties. Howell-Wasson’s passionate advocacy for remembering loved ones highlights how such rituals can enrich our lives and strengthen our connections. “Ultimately, it’s about love and respect,” Howell-Wasson concluded. “We honor those who came before us, ensuring their legacies live on in our hearts and in our communities.” Get news on the go with KHON 2GO, KHON's morning podcast, every morning at 8 This Día de los Muertos, let us celebrate not only the memories of those we’ve lost but also the love that binds us together.