Dear Annie: My elderly mom wants to move from her house in the country to a smaller home in town. This is her idea, and she’s already looking for a house. However, she has a house, a garage and a barn full of stuff. I estimate that it will take us about six months to sort through, dispose of, donate, etc., the excess stuff if we are allowed reasonable leverage to make decisions. We are limited to working on this on weekends only because my family and I all work and have families of our own.