Dear Annie: We live just 20 minutes away from four of our grandchildren -- three teenage girls and a young boy. However, their other grandmother lives right next door. She has plenty of money and often spoils the teenage granddaughters with facials and manicures. She’s taken them to New York City, her beach house and is even planning a cruise to Bermuda with the eldest next spring. For Christmas and birthdays, she gives them expensive jewelry and designer clothes. We simply can’t compete.