Dear Eric: I’d like to offer my take on Love Language’s wife thinking his wild attraction to her is creepy and demeaning. I haven’t been married as many years, but I am living this. I am in menopause, which I am certain is the same issue she has. I have almost completely lost my sex drive. I just plain am not interested in it. I love my husband with my whole heart. He’s the best thing that ever happened to me. I couldn’t imagine life without him, but I just don’t care about sex anymore. I’m not attracted to anyone else either.