A man was flirting with a woman online… and then his girlfriend found out. by Dan Savage 1. Quick & dirty question about online dating: What’s the best next step after texting? Audio message? Phone call? Video date? Or a quick, in-person meet-up? I recommend a quick video call — a brief FaceTime chat — before that first brief, in-person meeting in a public place. If someone isn’t willing to jump on FaceTime to confirm their photos are current (and they’re not a fake, a flake, or a chatbot), they don’t deserve the pleasure of your company. 2. Help! I keep falling in love! With every female friend I have! Maybe! You could stop! Using your dick! As a divining rod! When picking female friends! 3. We used to talk, my boyfriend and me. We used to share everything. Now I can barely get him to talk to me, to share things with me, to spend time with me. The more I ask him to spend time… [ Read more ]